The things a child thinks....

I heard an anecdote this week from a catechist who was teaching young children about Lent. She asked them where the ashes come from, and a young boy was certain that they were from dead people! And then when she told them that they were from last year's palms (from Palm Sunday), those young brains didn't remember back that far or make that connection.

So, parents- what DO your children think is happening? Now's the perfect time to clear up any misconceptions and help them recognize Lent for its connection to Easter. Need a primer, yourself? You could view the video in the previous post, and also read through another previous post.

Ash Wednesday and Lent

With a smudge of ash and solemn words encouraging us to remember the important things, we begin the season of Lent. Keep in mind that Lent doesn't exist without Easter. Centuries ago, these weeks began to be designated as the time for final preparation for those who would be baptized at Easter. And it evolved as a season for the whole Church (all the baptized) to look within ourselves, face the temptations that make it hard for us to follow and love Jesus, and pray for God's help in this process of life-long conversion.

Remember how Jesus went out into the desert after his baptism and before his public ministry? He was tempted with the sorts of things that would have kept him from being authentic and effective: aspirations of fame and wealth, and lack of trust in God's providence.

What are the things that your son or daughter could name that make it hard to for them to be their very best? Are there struggles you feel comfortable sharing with them that make it hard for you to be a good Christian?

It's generally been popular to give up something for Lent. In that discipline we might discover that some things we thought were 'needs' are just 'wants', and find new and more productive uses of the time and/or money invested in those wants. 

How will you change as a result of this Lent? Will your family pray together every day? Give up 30 minutes of facebook or xbox or netflix time to do some reading (for personal edification or family together-time)? Find some opportunity to make someone's life a little better? Participate in the many Lenten activities at your parish? (Go to the St. Andrew Parish Website for a listing).

Ash Wednesday is not a Holy Day of Obligation, but it IS a helpful way to mark our intention to get ready for the new life promised us at Easter. Masses at the parish are 6:30 and 9am and 5:30 and 7:30pm. There is also a Noon Liturgy of the Word with Distribution of Ashes.